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Reborn as a legend

An old friend of Confucius was Yuanrang. When his mother died, Confucius helped her wash the coffin. Yuanrang climbed a tree and said, "It has been a long time since I have trusted music." The song went, "The spotted head of a raccoon, holding the curled hand of a woman." Confucius passed by as someone who did not hear it. The follower said, "Can't you stop?" Confucius said, "I have heard that relatives should not lose their relatives, and the old ones should not lose their old ones."

The strategy of a concubine's daughter

Xie Annan was dismissed from his post as the Minister of Personnel and returned east. Xie Taifu went to Huan Gong Company and rode out west, where they met at Pogang. Since we were about to part for a long time, we stayed for three days to talk. The Grand Tutor wanted to comfort him for losing his post, but Annan always cited other reasons. Although he stayed overnight, he never mentioned this matter. The Grand Tutor was filled with resentment and said to his fellow boatmen, "Xie Feng is a rare man."

Confused Husband and Proud Wife

If the mother of the ruler dies, he will not mourn. The eldest son of the clan, if the mother is still alive, mourn for his wife. For the descendants of his beloved mother, it is OK to be a concubine mother, or the grandfather's concubine mother. For parents, wives, and eldest sons, mourning is not performed for generations. A man does not mourn for his beloved mother when he wears a cap, and a woman does not mourn for her husband when she wears a hairpin. For the descendants of her husband, she should wear her own mourning clothes. For those who have not been buried for a long time, only the person in charge of the funeral does not need to remove the mourning clothes; for others, if they have worn hemp for several months, they can remove the mourning clothes. The arrow hairpin is worn to mourn for three years. The three months of Qisui are the same as those of Dagong. The monks wear ropes and sandals. On the day of divination, the corpse is divinated and washed. All of them need to wear a sash and a cane and ropes. The official shall inform the emperor that everything is complete before the cane is removed. On the day of divination, the corpse is divinated. The official shall inform the emperor that the matter is completed before the cane is used. The emperor shall bow and send off the guests. On the day of Daxiang, the corpse is divinated in auspicious clothes and divination is performed. If a commoner son is in his father's room, he does not need to mourn for his mother. A commoner son does not ascend the throne with a cane. If the father does not take charge of the commoner son's funeral, the grandson can ascend the throne with a cane. If the father is still alive, the commoner son can ascend the throne with a cane for his wife. When a prince pays tribute to a minister of a foreign country, his lord is the master. When a prince pays tribute, he must wear a leather cap and tin mourning clothes. Although the person being mourned has been buried, the host must be exempted. If the host has not worn mourning clothes, the lord should not offer mourning clothes. If a person who takes care of a sick person does not wear mourning clothes, he will take charge of his funeral. If a person who is not a foster parent enters the host's funeral, he should not change his own mourning clothes. A person who takes care of a noble person must change his clothes, but a person who takes care of a humble person should not. If a concubine has no concubine's great-grandmother, she can be buried with the female ruler instead of the sacrifice. In the funeral, mourning, and death of a woman, her husband or son shall preside over it. In the burial, the uncle shall preside over it. A scholar shall not take over the office of a great official. A scholar shall take over the office of a great official only if he is the son of the eldest clan. If the master has not yet finished mourning, and there are brothers from other countries, the master cannot avoid being the master.

Shadow Painting Building

The Soul Master: The Innocent Lady

The sacrifice of You Yu clan valued the use of Qi; bloody and burning sacrifices use Qi. The Yin people valued sound, and before the smell is formed, they cleansed the sound; after three pieces of music, they went out to welcome the sacrifice. The sound is used to announce between heaven and earth. The Zhou people valued smell, and used chang to pour the smell, and yu combined chang; the smell, yin reaches the deep spring. Pour it with guizhang, using jade Qi. After pouring, then welcome the sacrifice, which brings in the Yin Qi. Xiao combined millet and sorghum; the smell, yang reaches the wall and the house. Therefore, after the offering, then burn Xiao and tanxiang. In all sacrifices, be careful of these. The soul and Qi return to the sky, and the body and spirit return to the earth. Therefore, sacrifice is to seek the meaning of Yin and Yang. The Yin people first sought the yang, while the Zhou people first sought the yin. The emperor ordered the prayer in the room, the corpse was seated in the hall, the sacrifice was used in the courtyard, and the head was raised in the room. When offering a direct sacrifice, the prayer was made to the master; when offering a request, the prayer was made to the 祊. I don’t know where the gods are, is it there? Is it here? Or is it to people far away? When offering sacrifices to the 祊, do you still say that you seek from people far away? 祊 means 逞, and 肵 means respect. Fu is good fortune, and 首 is straight. 相 means to feast. 嘏 means long and big. 尸 means to display. Hair and blood are to report the complete things in the dark. Those who report the complete things in the dark value the pure way. Blood sacrifice is to enrich the qi. Sacrifice the lungs, liver, and heart to value the qi master. Sacrifice millet and add lungs, sacrifice Qi and add clear water to report to the yin. Take the 膟菓 and burn it, raise the head to report to the yang. Clear water and Qi are to value newness.凡涚, which means new. It is called clear water, because the host has cleaned this water. The lord bowed twice, knelt down, and cut his flesh with his own body, which shows the utmost respect. The utmost respect is to show respect. Bowing means to show respect; knelt down means to show respect; and bare-chested means to show respect to the utmost. In offering sacrifices, the filial grandson and filial son are called by their righteousness; the great-grandson is called the state. In offering sacrifices, the host should show his respect and do his best, without yielding. Sacrificing with fishy and scorched meat, how can he know what the gods are eating? The host should show his respect to the utmost. He raised the jiao of the jar and ordered the corpse to be properly prepared. In ancient times, the corpse stood when there was nothing to do, and sat down when there was something to do. The corpse is the image of the god. Zhu means to give orders. The cup is made of straw, which means to make it clear. The wine is made to be clear, and the juice is offered to be made to be clear. It is like making the wine clear and the wine is made to be clear. There are prayers, responses, and excuses in sacrifice. The mystery of Qi is to think deeply in the dark. Therefore, a gentleman must see the one he is sacrificing for three days.

Start from a passerby

Even after his parents die, if he wants to do good things and wants to bring good reputation to his parents, he will do it; if he wants to do bad things and wants to bring shame to his parents, he will not do it. When the uncle dies, the aunt will be old. The tomb-wife's sacrifices and guests must be asked to the aunt, and the intermediary woman must ask the tomb-wife. If the uncle and aunt use the tomb-wife, do not be lazy, be unfriendly and rude to the intermediary woman. If the uncle and aunt use the intermediary woman, do not dare to fight the tomb-wife, do not walk side by side, do not order her to do the same, and do not sit with her. All women should not leave unless they are ordered to go to the private room. If a woman has something to do, no matter how big or small, she must ask the uncle and aunt. The son's wife should not have private goods, private livestock, or private utensils. She should not borrow privately or give privately. If a woman gives food, clothing, cloth, pendants, or orchids to a man, he should accept them and offer them to his uncle and aunt. If the uncle and aunt accept them, they will be happy as if they had just received a gift. If they are given back, they should refuse and not be ordered. If they are given again, they should store them for future use. If a woman has a private brother who wants to give something, she must ask for the reason again and give it to him after he is given. Married sons and concubines only serve the eldest son and his wife. Even if they are rich, they dare not enter the eldest son's house with their wealth. Even if they have many carriages and servants, they should enter with a few. If the sons and younger brothers return utensils, clothing, furs, quilts, carriages and horses, they must offer the best ones before they dare to use the next best ones. If they are not offered, they dare not enter the eldest son's house with them, and dare not use their wealth to add to their father, brothers and clans. If they are rich, they should prepare two animals and offer the wisest one to the eldest son. The husband and wife should all be present and the clan should show respect. Only after the ceremony is over can they dare to offer sacrifices privately.