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When Su Jun was in chaos, all the Yu clans fled. When Yu Bing was the governor of Wu County, he fled alone, and all the people and officials left. Only the county soldier carried the ice out of Qiantangkou in a small boat, and Qu Shen overturned it. At that time, Jun offered a reward to recruit people to find ice, and the search was very urgent everywhere. The soldier left the boat and went to the market. He came back drunk and rowed towards the boat, saying, "Where can I find Yu Wujun? He is here." Bing was greatly frightened, but did not dare to move. The inspector saw that the boat was small and cramped, and thought that the soldiers were crazy and drunk, so he no longer suspected anything. He was sent to Zhejiang and sent to Wei's family in Shanyin, where he was saved. After the matter was settled, Bing wanted to avenge his soldiers, which was exactly what he wished. The soldier said, "I come from a servant family and don't want luxury. I suffered from whipping when I was young, and I'm always worried about not being able to drink happily. If I can drink enough for the rest of the year, I won't need any more." Bing built a big house for him, bought slaves, and kept a hundred hu of wine at the door for the rest of his life. At that time, it was said that this soldier was not only wise, but also understood life.

Farmer tea girl

Zigong asked Confucius, "May I ask why gentlemen value jade and despise enamel? Is it because jade is scarce and enamel is plentiful?" Confucius said, "It is not because enamel is plentiful that they despise it, but because jade is scarce that they value it. In the past, gentlemen compared virtues to jade: warm and moist, it is benevolence; meticulous and fine, it is knowledge; incorruptible but not sharp, it is righteousness; hanging like a string, it is courtesy; knocking, the sound is clear and long, and it bends at the end, it is music; flaws do not cover the beauty, and beauty does not cover the flaws, it is loyalty; trustworthiness is everywhere, it is trustworthiness; aura is like a white rainbow, it is heaven; spirit is seen in mountains and rivers, it is earth; jade is outstanding, it is virtue. What is valued by all in the world is the Tao. The Book of Songs says, 'When I think of a gentleman, he is as warm as jade.' Therefore, gentlemen value it."

Warm the cold you

In a three-year mourning period, one should bow for mourning; if it is not a three-year mourning period, one should bow for auspicious reasons. In a three-year mourning period, if someone gives wine and meat, one must refuse three times. The host accepts it in mourning clothes. If it is ordered by the king, one dare not refuse, but accept and offer it. The mourner does not give away gifts to others, but if someone gives away gifts, even if it is wine and meat, one should accept it. After the death of the father and younger brothers, it is okay to give gifts to others. The county master said: "In a three-year mourning period, it is like beheading. In a period of mourning period, it is like beheading. "In the three-year mourning period, even if the merits are declining, no condolences are offered, from the princes to the scholars. If there is mourning and you are going to go and cry, you should wear your mourning clothes and go. In the mourning period, the eleventh month is for the mourning, the thirteenth month is for the auspiciousness, and the fifteenth month is for the mourning. The mourning period is for the condolences. After the burial, the great merit condolences, cry and leave, do not listen to the affairs. In the mourning period, before the funeral, condolences are offered to the villagers. Cry and leave, do not listen to the affairs. When the merits are declining, mourning, wait for the affairs but do not attend to the affairs. When the minor merits are worn, attend the affairs but do not follow the etiquette. When they approach each other, they leave the palace and leave. When they bow to each other, they mourn and leave. When they ask each other questions, they leave after the enthronement. When they meet, they cry and leave. Friends, Yu Fu and leave. Condolences, not from the host. Forty people hold the sash: Villagers fifty Those who are 40 years old will cry again, and those who are 40 years old will wait for the filling of the pit.

It's all because of the beautiful scenery

The system asked me to go to the house to fight

Fan Yuzhang said to Wang Jingzhou: "You are a man of great talent and vision, a real talent of the future." Wang said: "Without such an uncle, how could I have such a nephew?"

Beautiful scenery, but the weather is bad

Duke Ai asked Confucius, "What is the great ritual? Why do gentlemen talk about ritual with such respect?" Confucius said, "I am a small man, not qualified to know ritual." The duke said, "No! I am talking about it." Confucius said, "I have heard that ritual is the most important thing for the people to live. Without ritual, there is no way to respect the gods of heaven and earth, no way to distinguish the positions of the ruler and the minister, the superior and the inferior, the old and the young, no way to distinguish the closeness of men and women, fathers and sons, brothers, and the relationship between relatives and strangers. A gentleman respects this and teaches the people with what he can, and does not abolish the festival. After things are accomplished, he will then prepare the carvings and ornaments to continue. After they are in compliance, he will talk about funerals, prepare the tripods and sacrificial vessels, set up the pork and basil, repair the ancestral temple, and worship at the right time and order the clan. Then he will make his house comfortable, dress modestly, and humble his palace. He will not carve the table on his car, nor carve the utensils, nor eat two different kinds of food, so that he can share the benefits with the people. The gentleman of the past practiced ritual. ”