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Perfect Marriage: Dark Husband and Cute Wife

The distance of a diagonal

Zengzi said: "At the grave of a friend, there is old grass, but no one should cry."

Sadness flows like a river

The most important thing is virtue, and the next best thing is to repay kindness. Reciprocity. It is not polite to go without coming back; it is also not polite to come without going back. When people are polite, they are safe; when they are impolite, they are in danger. Therefore it is said: Etiquette must be learned. The principle of etiquette is to humble oneself and respect others. Even a porter or peddler must be respected, let alone the rich and powerful? If a person is rich and noble but knows how to be polite, he will not be arrogant or licentious; if a person is poor and humble but knows how to be polite, he will not be deterred.

Give you the sweetness of the whole world

When General Wang first came down, Yang Lang tried to persuade him to do the same but he would not listen. So Yang Lang worked hard for the king and rode in the "Zhongming Yunlu Chariot" and said, "Listen to the sound of my drum. Advance quickly and you will win." The king first held his hand and said, "If you succeed, you should use me to govern Jingzhou." Then the king forgot about him and thought he was Nanjun. After the king was defeated, Emperor Ming captured Lang and wanted to kill him. The emperor soon died and he was saved. Later, he served as one of the three highest officials in the country and appointed dozens of people as his subordinates. These people were unknown at the time, but were later recognized and appreciated, and were praised for their ability to recognize people.

Military Marriage

The Master said: “What the gentleman calls righteousness is that both the noble and the humble have to serve the world; the emperor personally ploughs the fields and offers rice and wine to serve the God, so the princes diligently assist the emperor in serving the emperor. ”The Master said: “The lower serves the higher. Although they have the great virtue of protecting the people, they dare not have the heart of the ruler and the people, which is the depth of benevolence. Therefore, the gentleman is respectful and frugal in order to serve benevolence, trustworthy and yielding in order to serve propriety, does not value his own work, does not respect himself, is frugal in his position and has few desires, yields to the virtuous, humbles himself and respects others, is cautious and fears righteousness, seeks to serve the ruler, is self-righteous when he gets it, and self-righteous when he does not, so as to listen to the will of heaven. The Book of Songs says: ‘The kudzu vines are spread on the branches; the noble gentleman seeks blessings and does not turn back. ’ This is what Shun, Yu, King Wen, and Duke Zhou said! They have the great virtue of the ruler and the people, and are cautious in serving the ruler. The Book of Songs says: "Only this King Wen, who was careful and cautious, served the God with sincerity, and had many blessings in his heart. His virtue did not turn back, and he was accepted by the states. '" Confucius said: "The former kings gave him a posthumous title with a noble name, and were frugal with a single benevolence, because they were ashamed of their reputation floating above their actions. Therefore, a gentleman does not boast of his deeds, does not exaggerate his achievements, so as to seek to be treated with kindness; he does not go beyond his actions, so as to seek to be treated with kindness; he praises the goodness of others and praises their achievements, so as to seek to be virtuous. Therefore, although a gentleman humbles himself, the people respect and respect him. "The Master said: "Hou Ji, the most powerful person in the world, is not just one hand and one foot! He only wants to float above his name, so he thinks he is convenient for people. "

Unromantic lover

Hu: The emperor is red, the officials are white, and the scholars are white. The hu is round and straight. The emperor is straight, the dukes are square in front and back, the officials are square in front and back, and the scholars are straight in front and back. The hu is two feet wide at the bottom and one foot wide at the top. It is three feet long, with a five-inch neck and a two-inch width of the shoulder leather belt. The first order is a hu hu wei wei, the second order is a hu wei wei, and the third order is a hu wei ci heng. The emperor's white belt has a red lining at the end, and the white belt is open at the end. The officials' white belt is open, the scholars' linen belt is open at the bottom, the laymen's brocade belt, and the disciples' white belt. The New York is made of a group of three inches, and the length is the same as the belt. The length is longer for the gentleman, three feet for the scholar, and two feet and five inches for the official. Ziyou said: "The belt is divided into three parts, the gentleman is in the second part, and the gentleman's belt is tied three times." The big belt of the official is four inches. The miscellaneous belt is red and green for the king; black and white for the official, and black and white for the scholar, two inches, and two four inches. For all belts, there are rates without merit, and those who are free to tie and belt diligently should collect them when they have something to do, and hold them when they run. The queen wears a 袆衣, and the lady wears a 揆迪; the king orders a 梆衣, a 襢衣, and a scholar's 褖衣. Only the women of the family order the 甸蛱, and the others follow the men.