妈妈与儿子伦理自述

Leftover women get married

Sun Xinggong and Xu Xuandu were both famous figures of the time. Some people respect Xu's noble sentiments and despise his grandson's evil conduct; some people love his grandson's talent and eloquence and have no interest in Xu.

Waiting for the Crane to Return

Confucius said, "Rituals are what the people in the streets indulge in. They make the differences between the people and make them have no suspicion. They serve as rules for the people." Therefore, men and women do not have intercourse without a matchmaker, and do not meet without money, fearing that there will be no difference between men and women. With this, the people in the streets still offer themselves. The Book of Songs says, "How can you cut wood? Without an axe, you cannot do it; how can you marry? Without a matchmaker, you cannot get it; how can you plant hemp? You follow her across the field; how can you marry a wife? You must tell her parents." Confucius said, "Do not marry a wife with the same surname, so as to distinguish them." Therefore, if you do not know the surname of a concubine when buying one, you should consult a fortune teller. Because of this people, the Spring and Autumn Annals of Lu still removed the surname of the lady and called her Wu, and her death was called Mengzi's death. Confucius said: "In the ritual, men and women do not exchange titles except for sacrifices." Because of this people, Yang Hou still killed Mu Hou and stole his wife. Therefore, the ritual of the lady was abolished at the grand feast. Confucius said: "If you don't see the son of a widow, you will not be friends with her. The gentleman keeps a distance from her." Therefore, when making friends, if the host is not at home, you will not enter her house unless there is a major reason. Because of this people, the people still value beauty more than virtue. Confucius said: "Love virtue is like love beauty." The princes did not go below the temptation of beauty. Therefore, the gentleman kept a distance from beauty as a rule for the people. Therefore, men and women do not touch each other. When you touch a woman, you should offer your left hand. If the daughter of a aunt, sister or daughter returns after marriage, men should not sit at the same table with her. A widow should not cry at night. If a woman is sick, you should not ask about her illness. Because of this people, the people are still licentious and chaotic in the clan. Confucius said: "At a wedding, the groom personally welcomes the bride and greets the uncle and aunt. The uncle and aunt pass the bride to the groom, fearing that the matter will go wrong." Because of this, some women still do not attend.

The Most Beautiful Concubine in the World

The two Dun of the You Yu Dynasty, the four Lian of the Xia Dynasty, the six Hu of the Yin Dynasty, the eight Gui of the Zhou Dynasty. The You Yu Dynasty used the 梡, the Xia Dynasty used the 嶡, the Yin used the 椇, and the Zhou used the 房 zu. The Xia Dynasty used the 楬 豆, the Yin used the 玉 豆, and the Zhou used the 献 豆. The You Yu Dynasty used the 韨, the Xia Dynasty used the 山, the Yin used the 火, and the Zhou used the 龙章. The You Yu Dynasty sacrificed the head, the Xia Dynasty sacrificed the heart, the Yin sacrificed the liver, and the Zhou sacrificed the lung. The Xia Dynasty valued the bright water, the Yin valued the 冴, and the Zhou valued the wine. Youyu clan had 50 officials, Xiahou clan had 100 officials, Yin had 200 officials, Zhou Zhou had 300 officials. Youyu clan had Sui, Xiahou clan had Silk, Yin had Chongya, Zhou had Bi and Shu.

The girl who turned over the story

Xie Gong was in charge of the Secretariat, and Wang Dongting had something to report to the emperor together. When the queen arrived, she urged him to sit down. Although Wang and Xie did not communicate, the Grand Tutor still knelt down and allowed him to meet her. The king was in a relaxed mood, and Xie Gong looked at him with interest. He also said to Madam Liu: "I have seen Ah Gua before, so it is not easy for me to have it. Although it is not related, it is what makes people unable to stop."

Leng Shao monopolizes Poppy's wife

When the emperor and the princes have nothing to do, they have three fields a year: one for dry beans, two for guests, and three for the king's kitchen. If you do not farm when you have nothing to do, it is disrespectful; if you farm without courtesy, it is a waste of nature. The emperor does not surround the country, and the princes do not hide their flocks. When the emperor is killed, the great chariots are sent down; when the princes are killed, the small chariots are sent down; when the officials are killed, the assistant chariots are stopped. When the assistant chariots are stopped, the people can go hunting. The otter sacrifices fish, and then the hunters go into the marshes. The jackal sacrifices animals, and then they go hunting. The doves transform into eagles, and then they set up nets. When the grass and trees fall, they go into the mountains and forests. When insects are not hibernating, do not burn the fields, do not kill deer, do not lay eggs, do not kill fetuses, do not kill young, and do not cover nests.

Concubine Chunxi