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Loneliness is good

Zeng Zi asked: "Do you mourn for three years?" Confucius said: "In the three-year mourning, you should be dressed, not stand in a group, and do not travel. Gentlemen use etiquette to embellish their feelings. If you mourn for three years, isn't it empty?" Zeng Zi asked: "The officials and scholars can get rid of their private mourning, but they have the monarch's mourning clothes. How can they get rid of it?" Confucius said: "If you have the monarch's mourning clothes on your body, you dare not wear them privately. How can you get rid of them? So it is not removed after the time has passed. In the case of the king's mourning, mourning is removed before offering sacrifices, which is a ritual. Zengzi asked, "Is it okay not to remove mourning for parents?" Confucius said, "The ancient kings established rituals, and did not perform them after the time has passed, which is a ritual; it is not that they cannot do it, but they are worried that it is too much. Therefore, a gentleman does not offer sacrifices after the time has passed, which is a ritual. Zengzi asked, "When the king dies, after the funeral, if the minister has parents in mourning, what should I do?" Confucius said, "Return home and live at home. If there are important things, go to the king's place and see him off morning and evening." He said, "After the king has been buried, if the minister has parents in mourning, what should I do?" Confucius said, "Go home and cry and come back to see the king off." He said, "If the king has not buried his parents, and the minister has parents in mourning, what should I do?" Confucius said, "Go home and cry and come back to see the king off. If there are important things, go back and see him off morning and evening. For officials, the old man in the house will perform the ritual; for scholars, the descendants will perform the ritual. The wife of a great official, if there is a serious matter, should also go to the king's place, morning and night. "

Good morning, bad boss!

When Prime Minister Wang crossed the river, he said that he had often talked about Taoism with Pei Chenggong, Ruan Qianli and other wise men by the Luo River. Yang Man said, "I have promised you this a long time ago, why do you need it again?" The king said, "I didn't say I needed it, I just wanted it and it was not available at that time!"

The husband of a famous family is too treacherous

The great temple is the emperor's Mingtang. The storehouse gate is the emperor's Gaomen. The pheasant gate is the emperor's Yingmen. The sound of the wooden bell in the court is the emperor's policy. The mountain knots and the embroidery, the double eaves of the temple, the scraping of the pillars to reach the countryside, the reverse altar out of the vulture, the high altar Kanggui, and the sparse screens are the emperor's temple decorations.

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The "Book of Rites" says: "Be respectful in every way, be solemn as if thinking, and speak calmly." It brings peace to the people!

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When the temple is completed, it is sacrificed. Its ritual: Zhu, clan members, Zai Fu, Yong people, all have titles and pure clothes. Yong people wipe the sheep, clan members look at it, and Zai Fu faces north to the south of the stele and goes up to the east. Yong people lift sheep, climb up the house from the middle, face south of the middle room, cut the sheep, blood flows in front, then go down. Chickens are used for the door and the side room. First the door and then the side room. Their scalps are all under the house. Cut the chicken, the door is facing the door, the side room is the middle room. The officials all stand facing the side room, and the officials at the door face north of the door. After the work, the clan members report that the work is done, and then they all leave. Return to the king and say, "The work of sacrificing to the temple is done." Return to the bedroom, the king faces south of the door and wears court clothes. After returning to the order, they leave. When the road to the bedroom is completed, it is examined but not sacrificing. Sacrificing the house is the way to communicate with the gods. All the utensils of the ancestral temple. If it is completed, it is sacrificing with pigs and pigs.